As a newly engaged couple, one of the first items on the “to do” list is to choose your wedding attendants. This decision is easy for some yet difficult for others~ especially those with many good friends and close family members. It is best to make your choices based on constant, loyal and responsible relationships, rather than on those you simply feel an obligation towards. No doubt you will be relying on your attendants; they should love you, support you and be willing to help you with wedding planning prior to your big day.

Before you decide on the wedding party, realize that in general, the more attendants, the higher your expenses as well as the increased difficulty in coordinating everyone’s schedule i.e. fittings, etc. Once the decisions are made, communicate often with your attendants. Give them enough time to prepare for their responsibilities and to understand what is expected of them. (Attendants are typically financially responsible for their wedding attire, gifts to bride and groom, parties, showers, and travel expenses).